More Thoughts On Race

Eric Holder’s comments on my country’s (the U.S.) cowardice in approaching the conversation about race has had an interesting effect on me. In a nutshell, it has fueled my thinking on the issue. If one wants to call it inspiration I won’t argue with that, but the fact is I’ve thought about matters of race all of my life. It comes with the territory of being a minority. Nevertheless, Mr. Holder caused me to peer a little deeper than normal into the issue.

Right after the U.S. Presidential election, I spoke to a childhood friend of mine who I love dearly. She asked me what I thought of the result, and I told her of my disappointment. She was genuninely shocked. Somehow, throughout the years she had missed out on me being conservative (those of you who know be me are surely shocked, but I’m not kidding here). After the usual half hour exchange that occurs between me and fellow black Americans who wonder how on earth I could possibly be conservative and vote Republican, she started explaining to me how so many black people in America were now holding their heads up high. I was gobsmacked. First of all, the racial litmus test of what it took to have them hold their heads high was revealed in a startling way. But what’s more is Frederick Douglass, Harriet Tubman, W.E.B. Dubois, Dr. King, Malcolm X, Dr. George Washington Carver, Dr. Charles Drew, and countless others weren’t enough for them to hold their heads up high before President Obama, who has yet to prove he is worthy to have his name spoken in the same breath as the people above. Then there’s the exclusion of members of every other race that has done something for the cause of equality in the United States and beyond. I couldn’t help but wonder what one of my favorite people, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr would think of this.

Dr. King is, of course, a figure whose memory everyone likes to envoke to drive home points about race. I don’t find this to be a bad thing unless his memory is being misused. He fought for racial justice, and knowingly laid down his life for the cause. I love what Dr. King has done for black America, and the world. I also love how he practiced what he preached.

I’m a firm believer in the thought that you can judge a person by the people they admire. Dr. King was an admirer of both Jesus Christ and Gandhi. I know of very few people who don’t honestly admire both men. Both stood for justice in ways few of us can conceive, but we are all grateful for. Like Dr. King, both died for their causes. They said things incredibly inspiring. Inspiring enough for a Dr. King to become who he was. Conspicuously, Dr. King’s admiration had nothing to do with their color. Dr. King had no racial litmus test for who he admired. Whether we like it or not, that speaks volumes.

Maybe I’m a bit odd, but history has shown us there are more than a few people, of various races and backgrounds, to draw inspiration from. Personally, I choose Christ as my first choice, then the list goes on to include His mother, my parents, the most lovely Finnish lady to walk the face of the earth (my wife), Dr. King, St. John Chrysostomos, and it will probably continue on until my last breath. My point is I can’t understand how anyone would limit themselves to admiration only within their race when humanity is chocked full of people of all kinds to admire.

The world is a VERY big place, with a lot of wonderful people in it. As I continue to meet people from different parts — Finland, Greece, the UK, Norway, Russia, Afghanistan, Iraq, Turkey, Israel, Norway, Malawi, Germany, Indonisia, Kenya, Ghana, The Netherlands, Ireland, Portugal, Chile, Cuba, and more — I’m finding there are a lot of folks worth admiring.

While having a black President sit in the White House speaks volumes for America, it speaks volumes FOR AMERICA. There’s a lot more there worth admiring than some may want to see.

Random Thoughts of A Harlemite

Republicans are no better than Democrats (and vice versa, of course). We can argue tooth and nail about whose ideology is better, but we must never forget that we are no better than our opponent. The struggles of life reveal this.

Racism is just what it is, no matter the color of your skin. The New Oxford American Dictionary defines racism as:

- the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, esp. so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.
- prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on such a belief

Whether we like it or not, this means that believing someone is more intelligent, naturally inclined to dance better, jump higher, or run faster, have better habits of hygiene habits, ad nauseum is racist. I’ve traveled the world enough to know racism is by no means an American thing. We Americans just seem to talk about it a bit more openly than other countries (thank God), despite what we may think. Maybe it’s because our country is only 232+ years-old, and we’ve only had one civil war (again, thank God!). Nevertheless, this has nothing to do with my point. Racism is what it is no matter your color. I remember in the early 1990s having a debate with a black-American associate who ignorantly claimed that it was impossible for him, a black-American, to be racist. Shockingly, or proof of where education has sunk, the person has an MBA (from Columbia I believe). I knew then and their what I was dealing with, and started immediately to save my breath. Racism is what it is.

Children are a reminder of how far we grown ups fall from innocence. Want to see how bad the world is? Watch children play? Want to see how to make the world a better place? Watch children play. The answers to both lie in their innocence.

Never expect the person you knew 20+ years ago to be the same person 20+ years later. Whether we like it or not, life goes on for most of us. Some of us choose to go on, and some choose to stay where we are. Thinking the best of people and giving them the respect you want to receive can help avoid awkward situations like discovering, in front of everyone, that you are the one who hasn’t moved on.

There are three words I know that contain a power that few value enough: “I don’t know”. Admitting you don’t know saves time, avoids embarrassment, and shows admirable humility. Folks like that, and tend to be more genuine when you demonstrate such behavior.

The truly humble person cannot be humiliated.

Asking “What did you say?” or “What do you mean?” goes a long way. Folks tend to appreciate people sincerely trying to  understand them.

Guard yourselves against modern-day, dime store philosophy. I’ve heard the famous Dr. Phil say, “There is no reality – only perception.” That has to be the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard him say. It falls to pieces with just a one-worded question: Really? (definition of really: in actual fact, as opposed to what is said or imagined to be true or possible).

Laterz.

Spotify Encounters Bumps In the UK Already

Well, it looks like the recording industry is what it is in every country.

I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt in the UK, and believe we had turned the corner regarding such matters, but that may have been a bit presumptuous on my part. As this story from the Guardian shows, they’re just as excited about Spotify as one would’ve suspected they’d be under the old mindset. Who loses? The users. What do the users do? Dislike the recording industry all the more. What then? They look for other alternative routes of getting their music for free. Who else loses? The artists who would’ve been exposed all the more on Spotify. I can tell you Spotify has been the inspiration for my going to iTunes to buy on more than one occasion. Sort of like the radio that offers music I don’t have to pay for as well. Oh! Maybe the difference is I get to choose it myself. Nah. It can’t be that. Because if it was just that I wouldn’t click on the “Similar Artists” choice that then leads me to other artists that I also end up buying.

Same old song for now.

(Hat-tip to Ricardo. ;) )

Spotify Invades the British

Looks like folks in the UK are getting a taste of Spotify and liking it. I have plans for a more decent Spotify post than this, but my little one and other things aren’t allowing that just yet.

In any case, if you’re not hip to what Spotify is have a peek here. You may well want to give it a try once you do. I’m guessing, like myself, you’ll wonder how the clever Swedes managed to swing the deal they did. I sure as heck do! :)

More Mouth Watering N97 Info

Just got this nice little nugget of a link from fellow Nokia appreciator Anders (hat-tip your way, bud).

Just looking at that video made me pretty sure I won’t be buying an iPhone now, and I haven’t even held the device. I’ve played with an iPhone, and it’s slick and nice to look at. Nevertheless, I know the Nokia mobile OS and like it a lot. If it remains as stable as what’s on the N95 I’ll be as pleased as punch.

I’ll be saving up my pennies – uh, I mean ”crowns” —  to purchase an N97 as soon as it’s releasted. There’s just too much there that I find appealing. Especially the real-deal QWERTY keyboard. The built-in true-north compass isn’t too shabby either. Add to that a potential 48GB capacity and I’m good to go.

This would actually mean I could carry just one device instead of a mobile phone and iPod. Niiiice.

Am I willing to shell out the €550? Like I said, I’ll be saving. :)